Thanks for registering and checking this out.Im really frustrated at this as my host cant help and i dont know where to turn
If my host (when I did have a few web sites) was this uninformed/unhelpful I would be looking for one that was more technically proficient as hacked sites are invariably down to old and vulnerable versions of content management software, many of which are part of the hosting package, e.g. SQL, PHP, etc.
Whilst that doesn't help you with your problem, but since the forum uses PHP, when php cobbles together the page content it is possible that that is when the malware is inserted. So you have to ensure that the forum software is up to date and any PHP template files are clean.
Now I don't know who provides the forum software, your host or yourself as to who is responsible for updating it. If the Host then they should also bear some responsibility (IMHO) to help clean any template files, etc. otherwise it really is down to you. Sorry I can't help with cleaning as I have never used PHP or forum content management software.