Hi Trish,
I am sorry for the inconvenience you are experiencing. Avast is quite lightweight, which is especially useful for people running older machines with Windows XP. You say you are having multiple issues - please contact our support team,
https://support.avast.com/Tickets/Submit, to help you with these.
One service that could help is actually GrimeFighter.
PCMag.com just ran a review, and stated,
"With its cartoonish minions and colloquial language, you'd never know that avast! GrimeFighter is a sophisticated Linux-based antivirus and optimization tool." Running this program may help to alleviate some of the issues that develop in an older machine like bloatware, trialware, adware, and other unwanted ‘Grime’ so that your computer is running in its most optimal state. However, if you want to get rid of all GrimeFighter notifications, please open your Avast user dashboard, go to Tools, and open GrimeFigther, you will see a "gear" icon, which leads to settings. In the settings tab, adjust the frequency of the notifications and other parameters. You can also turn off "always test for grime."
We hope you will reconsider, and stay with avast!