Cojo,
It's the problem that is annoying, not you

Well you ini file has the same settings as mine in the relavent sections.
Do other icons on the system tray come and go as they should??? an example...the two computers for the internet connection???
Finally ... FOR NOW... it's 3:00am here in Spain

. Get the Icons working manually.... click the files as you have been. Right click on the 'a' icon and check the pause providers from the menu... you should see that Outlook is listed (running), meaning your e-mail is protected.
We'll bash Vlk's ear in the morning and see if he has any suggestions.
Technicals references are good ones, but a little involved and some not yet resolved

But tonight...

do other tray icons come and go???.... I'm wondering if it's XP

Walker.