Fannymites,
If you see my posts at Wilders, I have been one of the early users of NetVeda, sadly, this promising app has gone the Jetico way with no updates, it does have problems with Avast transparent scanning as well as updates, I stopped using it months back as anything that doesn't work with Avast is out of my system. Even the new ZAP6 gave me problems, Avast Web Shield as well as mail scanning stopped functioning so out it went from my system. The older version 5.5 ZAP although did not give me this problem. In your case, I would advise you to try out other firewalls.