thank you for the ideas everyone!
hmmm, I'll try system restore again and checking the chest (my poor WMP...). I didn't think to try it since it worked fine up until uninstall, but that might be a good catch.
The WMP diagnostic link is a nice find too! I didn't know they had one of those. if it's not in the chest, I'll try the safemode+uninstall+diagnostic method.
if both those don't work, I'll look more into seeing if I can find a downloadable WMP and reinstalling. I looked into it briefly before but Microsoft tells me to buy Win7 since WMP is included. I already have it tho! Grrrrr

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might be a bit until I can try it out (need to wait until my next break) - but I'll be sure to report back if it works!
Thanks again everyone!

oh, a new reply before I could post. hmmm, changed it to red? I did come across that post, but my WMP won't open so I don't even know if it's red or not. it's nice they made a registry fix for it. Good job Avast! I downloaded avast just 2 weeks ago, but that registry fix thingy might be a potential lead if the above options don't work. thanks again!