Jarmo,you're right ,i was too quick in saying it was still warning, matter of fact it did once, then i posted,then i wasnt at the pc the whole day, when i came back i realised of the sad truth.......
Firefox,redirerected,dont ask anything,whereas IE does,but its not redirected.
Other applications do.
The avast IMAP E mail scanner is very good and warns quite efficiently about suspicious mails.
On the other hand,i dont want to give up the outgoing control........
what could be done was done,now i have to think.... thanks to everyone who helped,
i dont feel like pulling the cord any longer to the risk of annoying readers.