Hi tednelly,
This situation is going to go on, because alternate browsers are not on an equal footing to the Windows OS then IE is, because Microsoft is not allowing them. That is the "benefit"of an integrated browser solution. What we have here is a compatibility problem, which cannot be blamed on FF. Some browsers have tackled these problems better then others.
It is my personal experience that when I start the FF browsers from a seperate partition like a flash disk (mem stick), it does not crash, and it does not have the mem problems. The Flock browser is even better in these respects. API problems. This was the backlash for Netscape, and this reason made IE the browser of choice in MS's opinion.
polonus