Thanks a lot for your advise.
I ended up uninstalling avast and restoring my computer to b4 i installed it, cleaned all temporary files, and then ran ewido anti-spyware. then i installed avast! and ran it on the reboot and it worked that time. and it is working with Windows Firewall. don't know why it didn't work b4, but thanks again for your help.
avast! rules!!!