Avast just not working, and killing my pc.

:'( :'(
With new update .1290, loggin not allowed. When I uninstalled (using removal tool, etc.),
no issues starting my machine except no AV.
Tried reinstall, full system scan, etc. NO issues, login not allowed. I can s.l.o.w.l.y... enter my password, then nothing. Machine just sits there.
Tried the dmserver.dll fix. I have the version everyone is saying to use already installed. No joy.
It really come down to: if this software requires this degree of 'care and feeding', do I want to continue to use???

ANY insight appreciated.
Windows XP Pro SR3, Online Armour firewall,