@ MHJ
Are you not checking the Remember my answer for this program, see image ?
That should effectively be setting an exclusion.
I have the auto-sandbox set to Ask and it has that 'Remember my answer for this program' in the alert screen, and clicking that option in the alert adds the entry to the auto-sandbox exclusions, see example image2.
yes i have, but i simply don't like it. Maybe it's just me but i don't feel more secure with a sandbox now. that's why i disabled it completly. why would the sandbox even react to a ftp server that is around already for so many years? i can't see a reason for that. if it reacts to every application that leaves a port open, what ftp servers usually do

, many people will have a sandbox alert due to nothing bad, aka for no reason.
i think that the sandbox with it's current limitations is really a useless feature because now there will be millions of unneeded warnings floating around to like millions of users just because they use a ftp server. that's just producing unwanted hysteria.
my point is even if i add this ftp server to the exception list, what sense does it have if i switch ftp servers in the future and every time i do that or something similar there's a sandbox alert again? it simply doesn't make me feel more secure.