Hi Logos,
These reactions are sad if you do this with the best intentions, and you were not aware of existing rules, and then got the short end of the stick. Every forum has issues you have to come acquainted to, and to some you cannot and then you better do not go there any longer. Sometimes you have nit-picking users that try to report you for every minor trespassing in their eyes, because they are jealous or just have nothing else to do. Then sometimes people in their arrogance are just mean, and some people are just the opposite, friendly, helpful, full of understanding. It is like in genuine life sometimes.
If someone really does not abide by the rules that were set out to him/her/it explicitly or do things intentionally like luring, trolling, etc. etc. there should be a warning and if they continue in their ways a banana should be handed out to that user..
polonus