I still believe that switching back to auto-decide mode and restarting should return all back to running state - no reinstall necessary.
I really understand that this is not the optimal behavior. Some of the Windows services start before Avast GUI does, and before the user is logged into, and during that time no dialogs can be displayed. Some operations can be postponed, but others block the system, or must be blocked. Once blocked, you'll have to restart to give the system second chance (after changing the rules or creating new rules) - for many cases - which may give you the impression that the ASK mode is not asking you (but there is nothing to be asked for, the system has already given up connecting).
We'll try to find some better way to handle this.
Lukas.