I personaly think I will stick with ZoneAlarm for the time being. Thanks Bob for the tip on the Video, it was informative.
I have known many ex-military folks. Tact is one of their weak points. It is hard to be gentle to a newbie when you have been a drill sergeant, especially when english is you second (or third) language. I find responding with humor to their brusqueness rather than derision, usually gets the point across better. Imho.
The Windows updates icon has been sitting in my system tray for two days now saying "downloading updates 0%". Come on SP2 do your thing. Yahoo has an SP2 compatability download waiting for me too.