Alpha, this is just how this forum works. Its been called the Wild West before, and the metaphor isn't too far off the mark. Things are held together rather loosely, and police themselves with little intervention, with the general assumption something like "Hey, we are all adults here, surely we can operate in the same place without a nanny and lots of black-and-white, strictly enforced rules, right?"
So, when you see what is apparently a majority in opposition to something you are saying/doing, with no one coming to your defense, this is not some "bully group" headed by craigb trying to push you around. It is the general opinion of a majority of users, trying to nudge you back in line. If you don't like this method, and want a more strictly moderated system, just a heads-up, half (or more) of you posts would have been deleted on more strictly moderated forums.
More than anything, look at your post count......over 7 per day. Almost
all of them are jokes or opinions. Look at mine, Ive been here going on 2 years, and I'm at 2-3 per day. Now, I joke, and have been known for semi-inappropriate behavior, but I try to help people, keep my head low, and I've found a little niche here. This was mostly accomplished by a large period of lurking, where I figured out how the wind blows around here, and what I should or should not stick my head into.
and if you think these guys are being mean, you really need some1 like Logos to come in and show you what being raked over coals is all about 