You're welcome as in your case the VM Size is much better looking and honestly even it were higher, as Igor said that kind of RAM figure really shouldn't have any impact on overall performance of your system.
So as he said if it is slow then there is something else in the equation, not just RAM, with 2GB of RAM even 82MB of RAM is a drop in the ocean.
I would be looking at removing IObit software nothing to do with conflict but more to do with the reputation/history/ethics of the company. That said there is a direct link if, you are managing RAM using IObit SmartRam and with XP and 2GB of RAM this is something that you don't need. There is an overhead with using RAM managers as the RAM will have to be reloaded if what was previously in RAM is no longer present, that is why I feel it is better to let windows manage RAM.
I would also question the need for Smart Defrag, which presumably this is an in the background defrag function. Your system shouldn't get so defragged that it needs to be constantly kept defragged. I find it preferably to do it weekly with Puran Defrag and even then my C:\ drive doesn't need it every week, I could leave it for a month and not suffer any lag due to fragmentation.