With UltraVNC you need the hook driver to see any Windows XP mouse-over info or yellow balloons so the issue with avast! is not an isolated one.
No, this isn't the same issue. When the situation I describe arises, your connection gets abruptly terminated, and you cannot reconnect whilst the screen is grayed. One saving grace is that Avast times-out the dialog, whereas UAE does not. If you accidentally trigger Microsoft's UAE during a remote session you have no option but to call someone onsite, or else get-out the car and contribute to climate change.
But then, on office Win7 machines you can at least turn UAE off, and use other security measures. Plus, XP is thankfully free of grayscreens. Normally, that is. Turning off Avast's program protection in-toto -the only workaround I can find in its case- seems too drastic as it leaves the whole AV suite open to being disabled.
BTW I tried the latest Mirage driver, which claims to be Win7 compatible.. and it's no different. At least,not on a VMWare VM.
-and while I could look-for a replacement for TightVNC, that would most likely mean a lot of testing and evaluation, possibly just to uncover other shortcomings. UltraVNC claim their version to be Win7-ready, but the small print says 'With UAE turned off' Ho-hum. At a guess it has exactly the same problem.