After ignoring it for a month until I shouted in 30 pt loud red to get attention paid to it -- not a great resolution actually given what had to be done to get there so I would be a little reserved while breaking your arm patting yourself on the back...
And as to friendly, to paraphrase Harry Truman: "if you want friendly get a dog..."
Real software engineering (not "social site puffery") is a contact sport if you have ever been in a Silicon Valley design / code review, project management meeting, BUG MARKUP / RESOLUTION SESSION, etc. and real engineers have very little patience for stupidity, inattention to detail, process over production, and being nice while critical things go unattended to....